ELEMENT #8 Authentic – [A]
“To be completely original; genuine”
We live in a society where finding authentic people is hard to come by. Social media has provided so much exposure of the lives of individuals around the world, and we often try to model our lives based on what we see. I remember reading the hashtag of an Instagram post that read #nofilter. I laughed because clearly, the photo had a glossy layer placed on it. The most disturbing thing was that people commented: “You look great.” I once asked a group of summer interns “Who would they be without the filters on their phones? Could they even identify their true self? When they look into the mirror who do they see?” Sadly many of them could not answer the question.
There’s a difference between emulating a character trait of a person versus trying to become a split image of an individual. Character traits are a product of the application of adopted principles to one’s life. They are unique to each individual based on their life’s experiences. There is no way you can become the split image of someone without experiencing the same exact life circumstances which includes DNA make up.
Finding your authentic self can be challenging. We are saturated with advertisements to become more beautiful, more fit, buy more things, become the next YouTube sensation or get a bigger and better home. It’s a constant barrage be more, do more, have more, and the whole time you haven’t spent any time asking yourself the question, “ who am I and who am I supposed to be? “ It could be years before you realize you’re living a life that’s not in line with who you were destined to be.
When you want to find your authentic self, you need to remove all distractions from your life. What is it worth to you? Are you willing to separate yourself from social media or TV in general just to take time to soul search? I know I sound like an extremist, but no one is going to take your life more serious than yourself. So if you’re waiting for someone to hold your hand and do all the work for you, you will be waiting for a long time, if not forever
You can’t fake your way through life. Yes, it may work for a while, but you will never pass the test of time. Time will reveal if you’re genuine or a knockoff. Take the time now to identify who you are and grow in confidence of being your authentic self.
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